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I Miss AIESEC International Congress 2009
Nov 5th
Yes, I actually do. Sigh… time flies fast…
From left: Yours Truly, Amine (Morocco), Giuliaono (Italy), Alan and Daryl
Now, if I want to go to any country in the world, I will know who to call.
Well, not any country but maybe… 20-30 countries in the world and in the network of AIESEC? 
Plus, that picture was suppose to be a ganster look picture. Look at Daryl! Go spoil the picture only! Ish! Alan and myself did the typical “Klang” cinabeng pose. Hahaha
Squeezing the brain juice dry…
Nov 5th
I don’t know where to start. Moreover, I can’t even remember where did I last stop. But I know that I’m back from a long hiatus.
Hello people. This is me YapThomas and I’m back alive. T_T
Okay, on a serious note. I took a blue chill pill and feeling all blue I went on a stand by mode for few days. It feels like my soul left my body and now it’s back. I’m now out of the blue and feeling all dandy.
Put it that… it’s just life. What else can I say?
When life travels faster than our body, mind and soul does, all we need is just a break. It is when I will squeeze my brain juice dry with all the internal adjustments I need to make and clearing out all the black spots which dirtied my nice white sheet of cloth. Once that’s done, the vision is now clearer and it’s time to leave my brain alone and let it re-charge.
Hmmm… I can’t remember when was the last time I squeezed by brain juice.
I’m now re-adjusting my life. Putting certain priorities right in front of my eyes so that it doesn’t slide away from my vision. Taking out all the black spots whenever it appears, immediately. Not letting the white sheet of cloth to be kept dirty.
I told myself, “This could not be the worst.” The worst is yet to come, but I need to prepare for it. To challenge myself to move forward and not letting the past stopping me from moving forward.
Comments and views of others doesn’t matter. It is just me and my own personal believes matters most. Not to say what others say may not be true or to be believed. But it is just that, in our own life, we are the one who takes control of it and most of all, it is Him the Almighty who oversees our life.
Today, I received an SMS from a number which seems to be familiar but I lost the contact. It says, “The more you honour me, the more will I bless you” a famous quote from Infant Jesus of Prague.
In my life thus far, I’m blessed. I sure do but I’m sure there are certain times I’m being punished for my own mistakes which all the times involves money. I guess, there’s always a price to pay for not obeying commands.
These past few days, I’ve practically shut most entertainment out and focus on few objectives. Finding the right tune to jump start everything back again. Spending time alone and leaving the online world alone by itself. It was a great moment and time well spent with my inner soul. Most importantly, listening to Him speak.
I’m writing this post in an aimless manner. There is no objective of this post but rather squeezing the last bit of my brain juice. Oh yeah! I know, the objective of this post is to tell you that, I’m back. Fresher than ever!
Time to rock, yo!
Friday Calls for Happy Moments…
Oct 30th
I woke up this morning realizing that I never had my dinner last night.
Such a sad case. I need dinner plans to keep my stomach satisfied lah.
Dinner anyone?
That aside, it is already approaching weekend and today is Friday! Now you know huh. Thank me for reminding you. *smile* You’re welcome.
I can’t wait to leave to Gold Coast this Sunday and be crazy with my two loves, NuttyAidan and RueJabroni.
The same craziness that we did in Singapore back in 2006.
Hahaha… fun times… More to come this weekend at Gold Coast.
Time for lunch! Catcha ya’ll…
Sometimes…
Oct 23rd
… you can kinda guess what the other person is thinking or feels about you.
If you have offended the other person or being annoying or somehow, you’ve got him/her at the wrong time during the his/her wrong mood.
The only think you can do is back down and shut up.
Haiyo, you don’t need an expert to tell you this lah. Why go dig your own grave? Seriously! Funny how that I have to be the troubleshooter.
Often couples or two individuals would argue or end up being not friends (sometimes for a short period of time) because they would further probe questions like:
“Why are you not replying my question?”
“Have you no reaction to my last words?”
“Why you didn’t reply my SMS/Chat/Email/Facebook/MSN?”
“Why this, why that, why the sun, why the sea bla bla bla…?”
and the worst is this:
“What have I done wrong now?” If the answer is “nothing“, means you better go dig a hole quickly and bury yourself in there.
Maybe not the questions but the actions that you’ve done that just got into the other person’s nerve. Irritating, so to say. Just stop there.
I guess after spending so much time with another person, one will understand them better to know who they really are, what they like, what they don’t like, what bothers them, what makes them happy and etc.
I feel that you can use that advantage of understanding towards that person so you don’t fall into a cold relationship with them. I mean, you know how they are like so don’t go beyond that line.
I definitely do not want a bad relationship with anyone. Do you?
But then again, there is another point of view. You may think that you would have known the other person well, and you think that you know what you should do when that person is on emotional roller coaster be it good or bad. You backed down and decided not to jump onto the same ride knowing that person may not like it or you feel that you’ve done so much but felt not appreciated and what not…
You could be wrong. Simple truth, don’t judge a book by its cover. I learned earlier this week that, don’t just assume what that other person would think. It’s just a mere concern and understanding everyone need. That’s all.
What you think you might know may not be what you think it is.
Okay… I’m just randomly babbling out my random thoughts.
The Long Awaited Lunch
Oct 20th
This was two weeks ago…
YapThomas: “Lunch?”
PTGF: “Next week can?”
YapThomas: “Can… Next week then…”
This was last week…
PTGF: “PTBF! This week very busy ler… Next week we meet up okay? Place and time you choose!”
YapThomas: “Ohkay lor… next week lor…”
Then, this morning…
YapThomas: “Lunch today?”
Within one minute, I realized that I had made prior plans. See! This is why I need an organizer! Gah! So, I quickly re-sent another message. 
YapThomas: “Actually, I mistaken. It should be lunch tomorrow. At 12PM.”
PTGF: “On! See ya! 
”
YapThomas: “Can’t wait to meet up in 24 hours.”
PTGF: “Haha. Actually more than 24 hours. Dress to kill! Giggles”
YapThomas: “I’ll definitely sweep you off the ground…”
OH NO! I’ve got a lunch date in more than 24 hours and I don’t have something to dress up in… to kill.
Ah hah! This calls for a shopping day out and tonight is the only time.
Must dress to kill… Must dress to kill… if not I will be killed. T_T
I don’t understand…
Oct 6th
Taking all that trash out seems so simple. Even though there are memories that came with those trash. Memories that brought two individuals together and memories of the journey two individuals went through for a good countable years.
To me, it all seems too easy to be done but I can’t.
I can’t just throw out all those memories out of my life and expect myself to just press the esc. button profusely. I can’t do it for that I am a person who cherish both the friendship and relationship we both have shared. The journeys that we both endured in good times and bad times. Even though we are not married but those memories are what built us, two strangers who never knew each other but soon to learn more and began attracted to each other.
I cannot do it. No way! Those are precious memories no one else can build it with me, but you.You can take away the person, because the fact that life still have to go on, but not the memories.
Call me a loyalist but that’s how I am.
Ask me when we met. Ask me when we first travel together. Ask me how we knew each other. Ask me if I have done this or that for you. Ask me if you have taken me to great food. Ask me if I knew something about you.
I may have forgotten, but I do somehow remember. Don’t test my memories as I only keep good memories and I DO cherish them.
Wake me up when September ends…
Oct 1st
Cars honking, people chattering, motorbikes buzzing, sirens blaring, construction knocking, water splashing, clock ticking…
Ah… the buzz of city life. That’s just one small part of it.
The past few days has been really crazy and hectic but fantastic. I’ve done a lot of talking, eating good food, driving around, entertaining clients, presenting business proposal, meeting people, Twittering and best of all keeping myself away from The Office and the cyber world. That explains a lot on why my Tweets keeps updating and it’s so funny how C.Ho went all blur asking how I could update my Tweets when I’m not online
It is good that I have a phone that can read emails. Thanks to you CK! If you ever reads this. I can reply urgent emails and things in The Office has been well taken care off so no more troubleshooting problems and I’m very happy for a great team supporting The Office.
Now, I’m back from a long day out today and sitting here at the very comfort of my office chair I feel that it is all coming back to me again. Got some few surprises here and there when I log on to the internet world.
But oh wells…
Just one month ago I had the most enjoyable yet craziest moment in my life. Working for AIESEC International Congress 2009 was something that many people in AIESEC would dream of doing. It was a real eye opener to the things that AIESEC does and really, I learn a lot during that conference. I still miss those great time I had.
It was a great cultural experience to understand people better and a great working of both hard work and crazy fun. Next would be AIESEC Exchange and I wonder if it would take place next year which I really do hope it would.
Time flies so fast and now, I’m back to my crazy working mode already. I sat down over the weekend to do a mini planning of my next course of life journey. Everything has been charted out in a small book. Discussions were made and a few things being planned are now running slowly.
The fun time is over and it is time to get serious now. What’s past is the past and time to turn over to a new page and start it up like fire.
It is time to wake up and get things moving. Time to plan ahead for the future for my family and of course myself (if the family part doesn’t materialize ).
GO!!
Sep 28th
“GO HOME!”
That’s what everyone has been telling me and that’s what I’m gonna do.
Okay, no more late nights in the office.
I shall late nights at home then…
Does Girlfriend Make Us(Men) Poor?
Sep 22nd
(Edited this @ 3:28AM because I think my England was so bad!)
Somehow, that’s what usually people would commonly think. See, we are human and we just take the easy way out, generalize.
Boyfriend will go broke because of girlfriend. Really?
See, this is a statement made by a girl who somehow thinks that by having a girlfriend we (boyfriend) will go broke.
See what MP has to say when I said I’m broke…
Then again, I would think otherwise…
Sometimes, having a girlfriend by your side will not make you sad broke. They will make you rich.
They will enRICH your life with whole lot of abundance of joy and happiness and of course during good times and bad times that makes one’s life even more vibrant.
A friend once told me that, there’s lot of joy to had from having someone on our journey. Be it in life, career or family and etc…
I would say that the common perception is that we guys will spend so much on our girlfriend that we will go broke. I think that applies to the those who don’t even think for themselves at all. These people need training.
Come on, you can’t feed your girlfriend with luxury but then neglects your own. You are not even married to her yet, what you thinking man! You can impress her lah.. but with money, neverending man…
Oh wells, I ain’t speaking from experience, but I can tell you that I will not go broke from spending on girlfriend lah…
I don’t know… wait till it happens then judge me okay…
What should have…
Sep 20th
…was that the night lasted longer.
Nevertheless, it was great!
HELLO SUNDAY!
Sigh… internet still sucks, but at least better.
