… you can kinda guess what the other person is thinking or feels about you.

If you have offended the other person or being annoying or somehow, you’ve got him/her at the wrong time during the his/her wrong mood.

The only think you can do is back down and shut up.

Haiyo, you don’t need an expert to tell you this lah. Why go dig your own grave? Seriously! Funny how that I have to be the troubleshooter.

Often couples or two individuals would argue or end up being not friends (sometimes for a short period of time) because they would further probe questions like:

“Why are you not replying my question?”

“Have you no reaction to my last words?”

“Why you didn’t reply my SMS/Chat/Email/Facebook/MSN?”

“Why this, why that, why the sun, why the sea bla bla bla…?”

and the worst is this:

“What have I done wrong now?” If the answer is “nothing“, means you better go dig a hole quickly and bury yourself in there.

Maybe not the questions but the actions that you’ve done that just got into the other person’s nerve. Irritating, so to say. Just stop there.

I guess after spending so much time with another person, one will understand them better to know who they really are, what they like, what they don’t like, what bothers them, what makes them happy and etc.

I feel that you can use that advantage of understanding towards that person so you don’t fall into a cold relationship with them. I mean, you know how they are like so don’t go beyond that line.

I definitely do not want a bad relationship with anyone. Do you?

But then again, there is another point of view. You may think that you would have known the other person well, and you think that you know what you should do when that person is on emotional roller coaster be it good or bad. You backed down and decided not to jump onto the same ride knowing that person may not like it or you feel that you’ve done so much but felt not appreciated and what not…

You could be wrong. Simple truth, don’t judge a book by its cover. I learned earlier this week that, don’t just assume what that other person would think. It’s just a mere concern and understanding everyone need. That’s all.

What you think you might know may not be what you think it is.

Okay… I’m just randomly babbling out my random thoughts.